My first Madhur Jaffrey cookbook – Madhur Jaffrey’s Indian Cooking (BBC, 1982) – was a gift from my aunt Marion, who knew of my passion for food from India. Over the years, I’d begged Indian friends to teach me their favorite recipes. Yet, I always found Ms Jaffrey’s to be more inspiring and real somehow. The truth of this came when I cooked coconut rice for a potluck dinner held by one of the women who worked in my husband’s office. His boss came from Bengal and his wife – a former Bollywood film star – owned several restaurants in Delhi. I did not know they would be at the potluck, so I forged forth with the coconut rice. Imagine my chagrin when they showed up! How could I be so presumptuous to cook Indian food and expect them to eat it? But they ate some of the rice out of politeness, then went back for more, and asked who had cooked such a delight. I raised my hand and they gushed, saying that my dish tasted very much like what they were used to, and how amazing it was that I, a foreigner who’d never stepped foot in India, could capture the essence of flavor as I did, based on Ms Jaffrey’s recipe in At Home with Madhur Jaffrey (Knopf, 2010).
Given their reliability, I added a few more of Ms Jaffrey’s sixteen cookbooks to my collection over the years: Flavors of India, From Curries to Kebabs, A Taste of India, Curry Nation, Madhur’s Jaffrey’s World Vegetarian, and – of course – At Home with Madhur Jaffrey. All these books tugged me into the kitchen and made me into a passable cook of quite realistic food from India.